Monday, July 30, 2007

Absence makes the heart grow fonder...

This past weekend Mike, Sabrina, and I drove down to Houston to see Mike's sister Whitney before she heads off on her mission to Rostov, Russia. We left Benson and Grace in Oklahoma with Grandma Stacey and Grandpa Jeff because we weren't ready to subject them to another long road trip. This was the longest that Mike and I had both been away from our children at the same time EVER. We left on Friday and came back on Sunday. I was a little nervous that the kids would miss us and have a hard time, but I think we can safely say that they barely even noticed we were gone. My mom and sisters took Benson and Grace out to Grand Lake for Friday and Saturday and they had GREAT time. They got to ride on a boat and a jet ski and they swam a TON. We were grateful that they had a good time and that they didn't seem to miss us much.

Benson and Aunt Jenny on the tube

Grace with Aunt Chelsea and Matt, Benson with Aunt Jenny

Mike, Sabrina, and I enjoyed our trip to Houston. We got to spend time with my brother John and his wife Emily who have recently moved to Lake Jackson (about 1 hour southwest of Houston). We also had a nice visit with Mike's family. It's the last time all his siblings will be together for a while so it was nice to be able to get together with all of them.
Sabrina with Uncle John and Aunt Emily


The Richards' side of the family (minus Ben and Grace)


Sabrina with Aunt Whitney

Sabrina will be almost 2 and a half when Whitney returns from her mission to Russia. So this weekend was yet another example of how great it is to be back closer to our extended families.

Summer Fun

Since our arrival in Oklahoma we have been having lots of summer fun. The kids have enjoyed making cookies with their aunts MANY times.

We have been swimming a TON, the kids are really getting tan (except Sabrina who is still pretty white). We even bought a little pool to put on the back patio.


Grandma and Grandpa got a ping-pong table for the basement, which we have also enjoyed. As you can see in the picture, Gracie is already turning country with her cute cowgirl hat.
We are really enjoying being so close to family and all the fun things that come with it! I keep wondering why we waited so long to do this. It is so nice to have help and for Mike and I to be able to go on a date on a regular basis. We hope you all are having a great summer too!

Thursday, July 19, 2007

OKLAHOMA!

Well after several weeks of complete chaos, we are finally in Oklahoma and mostly settled. We have lots of fun stories from our move half-way across the country. We are starting to be able to tell them and find some of them amusing ourselves, but only because some time has passed since they occured.
Our first ordeal was trying to figure out where to have the moving company park their big trailer at our apartment complex. We used U-Pack and they drop off the 28 foot trailer and leave it for you to load for a few days and then pick it up and drive it to your destination. Our apartment complex has a very small parking lot and we learned that people are really uptight about coning off spaces. On the 4th of July we heard our car alarm going off and Mike went outside to find some guy breaking into our car. He was from a tow company. Apparently one of our neighbors called and told him that his car was parked illegally and broken down and needed to be towed, only it was our car. We had parked in two spaces to save them for the trailer coming the next day (we had permission from the management at the complex). Thank goodness for the alarm or we would have spent a lot of time trying to find out where they had towed our car. Then of course the day we loaded was blazing hot, 105 degrees plus. It was insane. We really appreciate all the help we got loading, particularly from my dad. We are also grateful that he drove our car from Sacramento to Oklahoma, most of the way without air conditioning (yes that's right the air conditioning on our car that has ALWAYS worked without any problems suddenly stopped working).
So we got all loaded and then started driving to Utah on Friday. We were making good time and things were going well until we got to the middle of Nevada and discovered that 1-80E was closed between Battle Mountain and Carlin, NV because of a wildfire. There really is no other way from Sacramento to Salt Lake. So we ended up having to drive back to Winnemucca, NV (90+ miles) to stay the night at a crappy hotel that had horrible air conditioning because that was all that was left. Then the next morning when we again set out to SLC, we made it to about the same spot on I-80E and the road was again closed (we're not really sure if they ever opened it during the night or not). Thankfully we didn't have to wait too long before we were on our way again. We were so relieved to finally make it out of Nevada, I'm not sure we will ever return to the state. We made it to Utah by dinner time on Saturday. We really had a good time in Utah visiting with friends and family. We got to visit with all of our grandparents and spend some time with Mike's family. We were planning to leave Utah on Tuesday to drive as far as Colorado, but then Sabrina got sick and barely slept on Monday night. So we ended up leaving Tuesday night and driving straight through to Oklahoma (we're still not really sure why we did that...). Before we left Utah we stopped at a grocery store to pick up a few things. Mike left the kids and I out in the car with it running while he ran in. I was sitting in the back on the floor feeding the baby while he was gone and apparently some concerned citizens only saw Ben and Grace in their car seats and didn't see me. So they called the cops. Mike was getting something out of the trunk when the cop walked up and said "We've had several reports of kids being left unattended in a car." Mike pointed out that I was sitting on the floor feeding the baby the whole time and the cop apologized and left. The trip from Utah to Oklahoma was pretty uneventful and the kids actually did pretty well considering all they had been through.
So, we've been in Oklahoma a little over a week now. We got all moved into the upstairs of the Burkinshaw house and everything seems to fit pretty well (we have stuff in storage too). Mike started work on Monday and he really likes the store out here. The kids LOVE being around Grandma, Grandpa, and their aunts. I feel a little guilty because I have so much help all the time, but I'm trying to just enjoy it while it lasts. Benson only occasionally says "I want to go home," usually just when he isn't getting his way. So we made it and we're adjusting. We really appreciate EVERYONE who helped us in the process, we could not have done this alone!


Gracie helping take apart her toddler bed for the move


Visiting with Grandma Stevens in Utah


Uncle Stephen, Benson, Grace, Grandpa Gary,
Sabrina, and Grandma Kathy


4 generations of Richards


Jess and the kids with Great-Grandma and
Grandpa Burkinshaw

Thursday, June 28, 2007

Moving on up

So we are moving to Oklahoma. Next week. We have been contemplating making this move for 2 years and a little over a week ago we decided to quit waiting around and just do it. I would be lying if I said that we aren't having second and third and fourth thoughts about this move, but we think that it is the best long-term decision for our family. So we load up the moving van next Thursday and head to Utah for a few days on Friday. We will probably stop half-way between Utah and Oklahoma as well because I don't think the kids or us can make that far of a drive without stopping.

Other than getting ready to move, things have been fairly normal for us the past few weeks. Benson has gone over a week now without having a pee pee accident, and he is wearing underwear all the time even during naps and at night. Our last potty training hurdle is going #2 - and we have no idea what to do about it. We're hoping that this move doesn't cause regression since Benson has made so much progress. Last week Benson had an accident and Mike told him that he was disappointed in him. So when Benson's friend Dalton came over to play and did something that Benson didn't like he said "I'm so disappointed in you Dalton." Kids say the darnedest things.

Sabrina is full on crawling now and seems to be enjoying having more control of her location. Her siblings are not quite as excited about it. I've heard lots of "Take the baby away, Mom" from Benson the past week. It is exciting to see her progress. She has already become pretty adventurous, crawling down the hall into different rooms and she has even started crawling up on things. There have been a few panicked moments of looking around for her and finding her in the bathroom or a closet.

Below are some pictures from the last week and a half.

Sabrina in her pretty Sunday dress


Gracie swinging


Benson swinging


Rub-a-dub-dub, 3 kids in the tub. Taking a
warm bath after swimming in the cold pool.